“My Teen Is Disrespectful — I Need Help!” How South Bay Families Can Find Support and Solutions That Come To You!

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t even recognize my kid anymore,” you’re not alone. At Higher Grounds Management, we hear this from parents all the time, especially those raising teens in the fast-paced, high-pressure environment of the South Bay, including Torrance, Redondo Beach, Manhattan Beach, and Hermosa Beach.

Disrespectful behavior in teens, like eye-rolling, talking back, and refusing to follow rules, can feel frustrating, painful, and even hopeless. But behind the behavior is often a deeper struggle: a teen who’s overwhelmed, misunderstood, or lacking the tools to express what they’re really feeling. The good news is, change is possible.

Why Is My Teen Acting Out?

The teen years are a time of massive transition. Hormones, social pressures, academic expectations, and identity development all collide—often without a roadmap. When teens don’t know how to handle what they’re feeling, disrespect can become a form of communication. It’s not okay, but it is a signal that something needs attention.

Some common root causes include:

• Difficulty managing emotions like anger, anxiety, or sadness

• Feeling unheard or disconnected from family

• Struggles with confidence, self-esteem, or peer relationships

• Too much screen time and not enough meaningful, real-life interaction

• A lack of clear boundaries, structure, and accountability

  
  

What You Can Do As a Parent

If your teen’s behavior is disrupting your home and relationships, it’s time to take action—not from a place of punishment but from a place of support and structure. Here are a few steps you can start with:

1. Set Clear Boundaries with Follow-ThroughTeens need structure, even when they push back. Boundaries create safety. Stick to them with consistency and calm, even when it’s hard.

2. Create Space for ConnectionTeens may not say it, but they still crave connection. Look for moments to talk without judgment or correction—car rides, meals, or walks are great opportunities.

3. Model the Respect You Want to SeeRespect starts with us. Modeling calm communication, emotional regulation, and respectful behavior gives your teen a blueprint to follow.

4. Get Outside SupportSometimes, things have gone too far for a DIY approach—and that’s okay. Getting help isn’t a sign of failure; it’s a sign of strength and commitment to your teen’s well-being.

How Higher Grounds Management Can Help

At Higher Grounds, we specialize in working with teens who are struggling with respect, communication, and emotional regulation. Through mentorship, behavior coaching, family intervention, and real-world accountability, we help teens build the skills they need to function better at home, at school, and in life.

We work with families across the South Bay—from the quiet neighborhoods of Torrance to the beachside energy of Redondo, Manhattan, and Hermosa Beach. Whether we’re meeting at your home or out in the community, our approach is personal, structured, and grounded in real transformation.

You’re Not Alone

If your teen is being disrespectful and nothing seems to be working, it’s time for a reset. You don’t have to face it alone, and your teen doesn’t have to stay stuck.

Let’s get your family back on track.

Reach out today at highergroundsmgmt.com or give us a call at 805-769-7549 to learn more about how we can support you and your teen.